By; Shifrah Kayaga
Love is a weapon so strong to be controlled and once you are into this situation, it’s the biggest and most beautiful thing that can ever happen in one’s life. They say, love gives life a meaning and, to those who so much believe in it, love also provides a long-lasting amazing life.” This is so sweet”
There is a combination of things to describe love for example affection, passion, desire, sacrifice, submission, attention many but a few and once one has got this in their lives, nothing is impossible to accomplish.
Okay fine, we have described love and given its full meaning though, YES, different people have different ways of defining love. But, have you ever heard of something called an adult crush? It’s something stronger than the heart’s desire. Its something so beautiful, so crazy, so hurting but brings happiness, so carefree and many other descriptions.
An adult crush is some emotional love feeling that comes into someone’s life where not truly needed and expected. Let’s use an example of a married couple who have absolutely everything they ever needed and every one feels they can never live minus being next to there spouse. Or, we can give an example of a so much in love couple who feel the decision they made to love each other is the best thing that ever happened to them.
Both of these examples show extreme love but, a day comes and one of partners crushes on some one may be at a work place, or crushing on a real friend or, it can also be a stranger. An adult crush is the most dangerous, strongest and craziest thing every human being might or might not have to experience.
Yes, it’s beautiful, so special, so sweet and so crazy but, once it appears in one’s life, it can’t be controlled at all.
Let’s break down some of the signs that show a person is dealing with an adult crush unknowingly;
A person doesn’t want to be far away from the people they are crushing on.
It gets some one so jealous and moody mostly when they see someone, they are crushing on you talking or messing up with a person of the opposite sex
They don’t want to leave their actual lovers but again they can’t live minus the people they are crushing on (total confusion)
They are so desperate and can do everything to make the people they are crushing on happy
They are so proud of someone they be crushing on and all they need to do is talk about them with friends
They can do all so long as it makes the person, they love happy.
They would rather kill you dead than seeing you be in love with someone else (obsession)
They won’t feel shy expressing their love for the people they are crushing on with their lovers since at that stage they totally fear nothing
They can sacrifice what ever it takes just so long as it makes you happy
Do not get confused. An adult crush is nothing compared to an adolescence crush because for adolescence, of cos it’s just a strong love force pushing you to do all sorts of crazy things but for an adult crush, some one is totally understanding about what they are doing but they have no power to control it whether good or bad.
